WAIT ON THE LORD
2 Samuel 2:1-5; Psalm 130:5-6
In my years of being
a pastor as well as my personal and family life, I have spent more than my
share of time in a place where time seems to stand still – the waiting room of
doctor’s offices or hospitals. The waiting room is not only a place where old magazines
go to die. It is also a place where life is put on hold. In the waiting room,
it feels like hours have passed, and yet when you look at your watch, it has
only been 20 minutes. When we are in the waiting room, it seems as if progress
has come to a screeching halt!
Perhaps today you
feel as if you’re in the waiting room. Maybe one of your loved ones is ill and
you’re praying that God would heal them. Maybe you’re in a job situation that
you consider unbearable, and yet you have no other choice that to endure it.
Maybe you are single and you’re searching for Mr. or Miss “Right”. Maybe your
children are in preschool and you can hardly wait for them to grow up so you
can have more freedom. Maybe you’re a teenager and you just can’t wait until
you learn how to drive or are old enough to move out on your own. Maybe it is a
family situation where your children or spouse is causing you grief and you are
begging God to change them.
You feel as if you
are in the waiting room. You feel like you are in the midst of a crisis and it
seems as if God has led you down a long hallway with a huge sign over it that
says, “Waiting Room”. And you enter that room and you wait, and you wait, and
you wait. For you, time has stopped. You have entered the waiting room and you
have no idea how long you’ll be there.
I think it is easy to
have a romantic view of the history of David as King of Israel. David’s life is
such a great story isn’t it? The good looking shepherd boy who becomes king.
The youngest son who is chosen and anointed by God to lead his people. The
young lad who defeats the battle seasoned giant Goliath. The musician who turns
out to be a great warrior. The young leader who is falsely accused and has to
run for his life and becomes the leader of a band of guerrilla warriors. The
middle aged king who falls in love with the beautiful Bathsheba. It has all the
elements of a great movie. That is until you read the details of the story.
Then you discover that sometimes the fulfilling of God’s plan takes more than
romantic wishful thinking. You discover that many times fulfilling God’s plan
involves years of being in the waiting room.
God was finished with
Saul. He has disobeyed for the last time. His kingdom is doomed. So Samuel was
dispatched by God to Bethlehem to anoint Saul’s replacement. When Samuel gets
there, David isn’t even present! No one even thought to invite him to the
party! No one dreamed David was a contender for king. He was doing what young
boys his age did – tending his father’s sheep. We are not sure how old David
was. Some scholars think he was 16 years old. Personally I think he was at
least a couple of years younger. When Samuel anoints him, David must wonder how
long it will be before he becomes king. The answer is that it is much longer
than he imagines and much more difficult also.
David is selected as
Saul’s private musician and armor bearer. He is in the king’s palace. Surely,
he can’t be far from ruling over Israel now. David is still too young to go to
the front lines so he continues going back and forth from the sheep to comfort
Saul with his music when he shows up to check on his brothers one day to find
Goliath taunting and challenging. David stands up to Goliath and kills him.
This makes David an instant hero. Maybe this will be the event that makes David
king.
The people love David
and so does the king. However, while it is David’s music that calms Saul’s
troubled spirit, it is the other music on the hit parade about David that
pushes Saul over the edge as the women begin to sing, “Saul has slain his thousands, and David his ten thousands.” (1 Sam.
18:7)
At first, Saul keeps
his jealous rage to himself. He seeks to bring about David’s death in a way
that will make it look like an accident. He throws his spear at David, but
people probably write it off as temporary insanity. Then Saul seeks to have
David killed in battle. He appoints David commander of a thousand, thinking the
same zeal that prompted David to take on Goliath will cause him to get in over
his head in a military endeavor with the tragic and sad result of getting David
killed. However, everything Saul tries to destroy David just serves to elevate
him in power and popularity. Saul offers David one of his daughters for a mere
100 Philistine foreskins. Instead of being killed, David kills 200 Philistines,
gains a wife that loves him more than her father and more admiration and
respect from all but Saul.
Surely, it won’t be
long now before David becomes king. Then Saul’s jealousy becomes public. He
orders Jonathan and all his servants that David is to be put to death. He sends
men to arrest David in his own home, but his efforts are foiled by his own
daughter. From this point on, David keeps his distance from Saul.
David must flee and
become a fugitive until God brings about some remedy. David ceases to be the
rising star in Israel with whom everyone wants to be associated and becomes
public enemy number one with whom most Israelites are afraid to be associated
lest they also incur Saul’s wrath. What happened to God’s promise that David
will become king?
Life in the waiting
room for David must have seemed dark. It must have seemed that someone lost his
file as his name is not called.
David goes through
many experiences all of which will make him a better king. He is now much
better prepared to reign as king. But God is not ready yet to make him king. It
is as long as 15 years from 1 Samuel 16 where David is anointed as king and 2
Samuel 2 where he is anointed as king but then it is only king of one tribe,
Judah. Even after being anointed as king of Judah, he must wait another 7 ½ years
to be anointed king of all Israel.
David is not an
opportunist who will stoop to any means to gain the throne God has promised
him. Neither will David look the other way when others do evil to facilitate
his ascent to the throne. David is a man who understands what being God’s king
is all about. He is a man who understands life in the waiting room.
One of the most
important exhortations of Scripture is the call to “wait on the Lord”. Even though
God has promised special blessing for waiting, waiting is one of the most
difficult exhortations of Scripture. Why is it so hard? We are so prone to take
matters into our own hands and follow our own schemes. Yet over and over in
Scripture, we are told to “wait on the Lord.”
I want us to take
some time this morning to see how David teaches us some lessons about waiting
on the Lord.
Body
I.
WAITING IS A SIGNIFICANT PART OF EACH OF OUR LIVES.
We don’t like to
wait. Ours is a society that has grown accustomed to immediate gratification.
We have cell phones with texting and email to make communication instant. We
have microwaves to make heating food faster. We have fast food so we can eat on
the run. We have airplanes to make travel faster. We have computers that run
faster when compared with the computers of only a few years ago. We have coffee
brewed in less than a minute, instant oatmeal and maybe even instant milk to go
on top of it. We ride to work at 60 mph and complain at how slow the traffic
is. We make copies in seconds and fax them around the world in minutes.
Publishers Clearing House tells me every week that I may be an instant
millionaire if I return the certificate by a certain date.
Yet even in our
modern age of conveniences, waiting is still a big part of life. When we think
of waiting, what comes to mind? We might conjure up visions of an airport
terminal, a doctor’s waiting room, the line at the supermarket, or being stuck
in rush hour traffic. The fact is most of us are waiting for something most of
the time.
I couldn’t wait to
get to my 16th birthday, so I could get my driver’s license. When I
was engaged, I could not wait until the day or our wedding. When in seminary, I
couldn’t wait to graduate and pastor a church full time. Young people wait to
grow up and enjoy the rights, privileges and responsibilities of adulthood.
Couples waiting for
children have to wait at least 9 months for a child and many wait much longer.
Many wait for recognition and rewards in their work while others take shortcuts
to get ahead.
Almost every
Christian has some form of pain or suffering for which they wait for
deliverance.
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Maybe you are in a job situation that is
really tough to endure and you are waiting and hoping that conditions will
change for the better.
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Maybe you
are without a job and waiting for news on an application.
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Maybe you
are ill or have a loved one who is ill and wait for your health to improve.
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Maybe you
are on a diet and waiting for your weight to drop a few pounds.
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Maybe you
are a single person and waiting for Mr. or Miss Right.
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Maybe you
are waiting for your spouse or child to become interested in spiritual things.
The simple fact is
that in spite of our modern age and our dislike for waiting, life is full of
waiting. And one of the most challenging exhortations of Scripture is to
“Wait”. We have been conditioned to believe that life’s problems can be solved
instantly and while we are saved the moment we trust in Christ, God takes a
lifetime to mold us into His image.
II.
WAITING ON THE LORD MEANS WAITING FOR THE PASSAGE OF
TIME.
This is one of those
“duh” points! The point is the promise God made to Israel and to David took a
long time to be fulfilled. The period of David’s life from 1 Samuel 16:1 to 2
Samuel 5:5 can be summed up by 2 words:
1.
Time
2.
Trouble.
We often speak of the
patience of Job. However, this morning, we are thinking about the patience of
David. I am amazed at his willingness to wait on the Lord to give him the
throne in God’s time.
Perhaps it is my own
impatience when it comes to waiting, but I am amazed that David could be so
patient with God. I’m afraid
that I have often
been tempted to take matters into my own hands. I’m not sure I could have
turned down the opportunities David had to strike Saul down. David was firm in
his belief that no one should raise his hand against the Lord’s anointed. Not
him. Not anybody else. So David had the Amalekite who assisted Saul in his
suicide killed and rewarded the men who buried him after he died.
God often brings His
promises and purposes about in this way. God is not in a hurry. God has all the
time in the world. In fact, God is bigger than time and certainly not limited
by time. Throughout the Bible, we find God promising things that men and women had to wait to receive.
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God
promised Abram and Sarai a child but they had to wait 25 years to get him.
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God
promised Noah there would be a flood but it was a long time coming.
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Moses
waited for 40 years on the backside of the desert for God’s call.
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God made
Jacob wait 14 years to get the wife he wanted.
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Joseph
languished in prison for 15 years before God vindicated him and had to wait a
long time to see his father and family and he did not get back home till after
his death.
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The
Israelites had to wait 430 years in Egypt before returning to the Promised Land.
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Even Paul
spent 17 years in preparation for the ministry God called him to on the road to
Damascus.
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For 2,000
years, believers have been waiting for the Lord to return.
The point is waiting
is part of God’s design of things. Waiting is no accident. It is part of God’s
purpose. Waiting means the passage of time.
(Psa 130:5) I wait for the LORD, my soul waits, and in his word I put my hope.
(Psa 130:6) My soul waits for the Lord more than watchmen
wait for the morning, more than watchmen wait for the morning.
The Psalmist was
comparing waiting expectantly on the Lord to the night guards of the city who
watched the passage of time as they anticipated the coming dawn when they would
be released from their duty. The coming of the dawn was certain, but not
without the passage of time. You couldn’t hurry it up!
In our “I want it
now” generation, we must understand and accept the fact that waiting on the
Lord always involves the passage of time just as it does when we are waiting
for the news, or waiting for a special TV program or waiting for a plane to
arrive or waiting for retirement. Waiting on the Lord means enduring the
passage of time.
One day a friend of
Phillip Brooks, a great preacher of another generation, called on him and found
him impatiently pacing the floor. He asked what the trouble was. With flashing
eyes, Phillip Brooks said, “The trouble is that I am in a hurry and God is
not!”
Andy Stanley makes a
great statement. He’s talking about waiting on God and he says, “We look at our
watches; God looks at the calendar.”
No doubt there are a
number of things you are waiting for also: victory, healing, peace, growth,
vindication, or success. Today, I encourage you to remember one thing: God is
on His way. Sometimes the night seems to last forever. Sometimes His silence
seems permanent. That is because we look at the clock while He looks at the
calendar.
Eccl. 3:11 says, “God has made everything beautiful for its
own time. He has planted eternity in the human heart, but even so, people
cannot see the whole scope of God’s work from beginning to end.”
We cannot see the
whole scope of God’s work, but the scope exists. And we may not see the big
picture, but there is one. Today might be just another day of waiting for you,
but you can make it better. Take your eyes off the clock and turn them toward
Jesus. Spend this time in expectation rather than desperation. God is at work
in your life, making all things beautiful in their time.
Waiting on the Lord
is not only a significant part of our lives. It also means waiting for the
passage of time.
III.
WAITING ON THE LORD MEANS CONFIDENT EXPECTATION.
Waiting includes the
concept of hope and trust. When you wait for the news on TV, you are trusting
and expecting your TV to work, and that the station will be on the air and able
to broadcast. When you wait to hear whether or not you have been accepted for
the job you’ve applied for, you are not only hoping to get the job, you are
hoping your credentials and qualifications are more than sufficient.
Let’s go back to that
passage in Psalms 130:5-6 I read a moment ago.
I wait for the LORD, my soul waits, and in his word I put my hope.
My soul waits for the Lord more than watchmen wait for
the morning, more than watchmen wait for the morning.
When like those guards we wait for the morning, we are waiting for more
than simply time to pass. We are waiting for the sun to rise and the day to
break. We are waiting for the light to replace the darkness and the cold to be
replaced with the warmth of the sun.
Waiting involves an expectation of something special. Waiting means
anticipation, expectation, and confident hope in something that will take
place. Waiting on the Lord is like waiting for the sun to rise – waiting
expectantly for the Lord’s answers to human needs as the sun brings the warmth
of the day.
As the watchman waits for the sun because he knows it is reliable, so
the Psalmist waits for the Lord even more because he knows the Lord is more
reliable than the rising of the sun.
That’s why David could wait all those years for God’s promise and plan
to come to pass. The ability to wait on the Lord stems from being confident and
focused on who God is and in what God is doing. It means confidence in God’s
person: confidence in His wisdom, love, timing, and understanding of our
situation. It means knowing and trusting in God’s principles, promises,
purposes and power.
(Psa 62:1) My soul finds rest in God alone; my salvation comes from him.
(Psa 62:2) He alone is my rock and my salvation; he is my fortress, I will never be
shaken.
(Psa 62:11) One thing God has spoken, two things have I heard: that you, O God, are
strong,
(Psa 62:12) and that you, O Lord, are loving. Surely you will reward each person
according to what he has done.
It is in times of
waiting for God that many have failed in their faith and obedience. Waiting is
a test of our faith and endurance. Satan often tries to use times of delay as
proof that God either doesn’t know or doesn’t care. He seeks to get us to doubt
that God’s promises will ever be fulfilled. He tries to get us to act
independently of God to obtain these things on our own, rather than to wait for
God to give them to us. He seeks to raise doubts about the goodness of God as
though God were withholding something good from us. He works at promoting
distrust in God and His Word. He urges us to seize the moment, to use questionable
means, and to use others as means to our desired ends.
Times of waiting on
the Lord are designed to be times when our faith is stretched and we draw
closer to Him. Ever noticed how many of the Psalms are written during times of
waiting? The question, “How long…” is found often in the Psalms. Waiting on the
Lord helps us develop patience and endurance. It calls upon us to have faith in
God’s promises and to act on the basis of what God said, rather than upon what
we see. Waiting enhances our appetite for the good things God has in store for
us. Waiting requires us to set aside our desire for immediate gratification by
some easier way and to trust in God’s timing and activity.
IV.
WAITING ON THE LORD INVOLVES TAKING THE RIGHT ACTION
AT THE RIGHT TIME.
When we think of
waiting, we might envision just sitting back, not doing much of anything…just
waiting for something to happen. Sittin' in the mornin' sun
I'll be sittin' when the evenin' come
Watching the ships roll in
And then I watch 'em roll away again.
I'm sittin' on the
dock of the bay
Watching the tide roll away
I'm just sittin' on the dock of the bay
Wastin' time.
That is not the kind
of waiting the Bible speaks about.
Have you ever watched
what people do while they are waiting? Some do absolutely nothing. Some crochet
or do needle work. Some read. Some work on a laptop. There are constructive
things to do while you wait.
David waited over 20
years to reign over Israel, but it was a very busy time in his life. David did
more than just run for his life. He delivered the people of Keilah (1 Sam.
23:1-5), and he did good to the people of Judah (1 Sam. 30:26-31).
Waiting on the Lord
involves
1.
Things
we do – doing the right things.
2.
Things
we are not to do – refraining from wrong things.
3.
Things
that happen to us, in us, and for us in the process of waiting.
Waiting on the Lord involves careful
obedience by faith. (Lam 3:24) I say to myself, "The LORD is my portion; therefore I will wait for
him."
(Lam 3:25) The LORD is good to those whose hope is in him, to the one who seeks him;
When we are waiting
on the Lord we spend time in God’s Word…studying, seeking answers, and claiming
God’s promises. We spend time in prayer…praying about the issues and praying
for wisdom and discernment.
We spend time
meditating on who God is, what He is wanting to do in us and through us and on
what we need to do.
David spent much of
this time of waiting in praise and worship, writing so many of the Psalms. While
we may not be able to do what we would most like to do, we can do what God has
given us to do, while we wait on the Lord to fulfill His promises and purposes.
Satchel Page threw
his first major league pitch at the age of 42. He was good enough to play in
the majors at age 18, but he couldn’t. Satchel Page was black. Seven years
after Jackie Robinson broke the color barrier in baseball, Satchel Page who was
an undisputed superstar everywhere but in the major leagues got his chance.
There was criticism
for adding such an old man to the roster. Some sportswriters called it a
publicity stunt. Others said Satchel Page was just getting the break he
deserved for years but doubted his ability to compete at age 42.
He silenced his
critics by winning his first 3 games as a pro. He shut out Chicago twice in the
process. He went on to win 28 games during his pro career and even made a brief
comeback at age 59, pitching 3 innings. He knew all along he was good enough to
pitch in the major leagues and when he finally got the chance, he proved it.
He had the ability to
make throwing a baseball look effortless and spent his life perfecting the art.
And eventually, he got the chance to show the world he could compete with the
best.
David waited years
before he was finally crowned as king. But he spent those years waiting on the
Lord, getting ready for that day.
CONCLUSION – A Dutch
Proverb says, “An ounce of patience is worth a pound of brains.” Patience is a
necessary ingredient for success. American humorist Arnold Glasow said, “The
key to everything is patience. You get the chicken by hatching the egg – not by
smashing it.”
The essence of living
by faith is patience. Think about the evil and suffering we unleash on the
world because of our impatience. From traffic accidents to people who steal
from others because they won’t take the time or exert the energy to work for
the things they want. Think about the suffering unwanted pregnancies have
caused because a couple could not wait for marriage to have sex. Think of the
number of people who have put themselves in plastic prison because they could
not say no to impulse and have racked up a huge debt.
Not only would life
in general be better if people were more patient. The truth is the lack of patience
in our Christian walk keeps us from being the strong disciples of Christ we
ought to be.
(Isa 40:31) But they that wait upon the LORD shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with
wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint.
How about you? How
patient are you? How patient are you with annoying people? Are you patient when you are in a hurry? Do
you have the ability to delay gratification? But really the question goes
deeper than that.
Do you have patience
to wait on God’s timing? Are you willing to trust in Him when you are living in
the midst of the story, or do you want to fast forward to the end? Do you want
to skip the struggle to get to the resolution, or in the struggle are you content
to trust in God, letting the unseen faith in God anchor you during troubling
times?
Desperately,
helplessly, longingly, I cried:
Quietly, patiently,
lovingly God replied.
I pled and I wept for
a clue to my fate,
And the Master so
gently said, “Child, you must wait.”
“Wait? You say,
wait!” my indignant reply.
“Lord, I need
answers. I need to know why!
Is Your hand
shortened? Or have You not heard?
By Faith, I have
asked, and am claiming Your Word.
My future and all to
which I can relate
Hangs in the balance,
and YOU tell me to WAIT?
I’m needing a ‘yes’,
a go-ahead sign,
Or even a ‘no’ to
which I can resign.
And Lord, You
promised that if we believe
We need but to ask,
and we shall receive.
And Lord, I’ve been
asking, and this is my cry:
I’m weary of asking!
I need a reply!
Then quietly, softly,
I learned of my fate
As my Master replied
once again, “You must wait.”
So I slumped in my
chair, defeated and taut
And grumbled to God,
“So, I’m waiting…for what?”
He seemed to kneel
and His eyes wept with mine,
And He tenderly said,
“I could give you a sign.
I could shake the
heavens and darken the sun.
I could raise the
dead, and cause mountains to run.
All you seek, I could
give, and pleased you would be.
You would have what
you want –But you wouldn’t know Me.
You’d not know the
depth of My love for each saint;
You’d not know the
power that I give to the faint;
You’d not learn to
see through the clouds of despair;
You’d not learn to
trust just by knowing I’m there;
You’d not know the
joy of resting in Me
When darkness and
silence were all you could see.
You’d never
experience that fullness of love
As the peace of My
Spirit descends like a dove;
You’d know that I
give and I save… (for a start)
But you’d not know
the depth of the beat of My heart.
The glow of my comfort
late into the night,
The faith that I give
when you walk without sight,
You’d never know,
should your pain quickly flee,
What it means that
“My grace is sufficient for Thee.”
Yes your dreams for
your loved one overnight would come true,
But Oh the loss! If
you lost what I’m doing in you!
So be silent, My
child, and in time you will see
That the greatest of
gifts is to get to know Me.
And though oft’ may
My answers seem terribly late,
My most precious
answer of all is still, “Wait.”
God is the same God
in the beginning of the promise, during the struggle and when He gives you the
desire of your heart. God is good all the time and all the time God is good.
And that you can depend on. God’s will will be done…in His time. Wait on the
Lord.
Mark S. Wheeler, “Hurry Up
& Wait” Dallas Seminary, Kindred Spirit
Bob Deffinbaugh, “Waiting on
the Lord”, Bible.org
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